I couldnt take Abilify because of side effects so I don't know much about the weight issue. My weight problems was from me self-medicating with.....herbal remedies. Talk with your doctor about the weight issues. Weight is not just vanity as some people have a hard time grasping. It also brings on other potential health problems. Let your doctors know and I am sure they can get you on something else.
Welcome to PC by the way. As you might have already guessed... this site is a great support to what you may currently be using and has a very strong bi-polar board. I hope you can find your way around and if not, I am sure that most people on here can help you get the "swing of things"
I'm personally on Lamictal and Geodon right now and have not noticed any weight issues. I actually dropped a few pounds over a month when I went to my Primary recently.
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