I forgot to add ...

This gesture is the last thing I'll be doing in light of her more recent behavior. I have discovered through others that Sarah has painted me to others (her mother and her brother) as a less-than-caring boyfriend... with intimations that there was even mistreatment in that I've been harrassing her! I knew she would choose not to include the "nature" of our break up to others (such as "I still want you in my life... almost as a pseudo boyfriend etc".) But why say I was something I wasn't?

Is it the only way she knows to feel better about herself? To say I wasn't all that flash makes her latest relationship with Jack more palatable? It's all well and good if she gives me the cold shoulder but to influence others in that manner? That really, really bothers me.