thanks for asking these questions and sorry it i take over the post by asking more questions but i really am curious and these were great questions.i have always looked at transferance as a not so good thing.but reading about it here it seems like it is an almost positive and important part of therapy.i guess i dont understand it a lot yet.but my question is what happens if this transferance never happens or is unable to happen for whatever reason.i dont mean with just one T that you dont connect with but with anyone.i dont think that kind of relationship with any T is possible for me.is therapy still possible without this?