Playing devil's advocate somewhat, I'm rather surprised at the outrage and actions being taken. I don't feel most parents are capable of being good and capable parents and I certainly can't fix that problem. A thirteen year old girl on facebook in a bikini? Calling the school and perhaps the police in an attempt to get this kind of thing stopped seems a bit over zealous in my opinion.

I went to the beach this week and probably saw a hundred or more tweens and young teens in bikini's there for all to see. Clearly this is condoned by society. I mean, they sell thongs in major department stores for five year olds. It's not the way I raised my daughter (and I raised her by myself) but bikini shots of facebook are pretty tame compared to what's going on out there.

Personally, I wouldn't get involved. Thirteen years of inappropriate upbringing isn't going to be rectified because her parents get a call from the school. I think she's more likely to get a beating for embarrassing them.