AkAngel - I respect your opinion and I'm open to all views. In my original post I was more concerned about the boy being welcomed to touch the girl on the bus and this has happened before. There are grade 4,5,6,7 and 8 on the bus and I don't think it's right to have this happening on a school bus, where younger children can see this. I don't think I was over zealous in calling the school because it's very inappropriate behavior.

Regarding the Facebook photos. Yes I know it's normal to wear a bikini on the beach but these weren't beach photos and anyone could copy the pictures. I'm sure many parents are fine with their tweens wearing a bikini on the beach but not posted on Facebook. I haven't decided whether I'll tell the school about Facebook. I was considering it, only because it represents a problem with this girls home life - supervision. This girl has been having repetitive problems at school and its rumored she's had sex at the back of the school. Groping shouldn't be allowed on a school bus therefore, I feel justified in calling the school. Who know's maybe next time a boy will decide to touch my daughter because they think it's okay.