So this is kinda an odd question. I've seen 10 T's in the last 3 years, and all of them have been female. I find this a bit strange, as I never asked for it or anything, but it's not a huge deal. However, I noticed that it's ironic because I can't STAND girls my own age, and almost all of my friends are male...plus, I have issues trusting a male (in an intimate/romantic way), so I don't think I'd have an issue with falling for a male T or anything; on the same note, I trust them with secrets and that sort of thing, and I'm often more honest with my male friends than my female friends...Since I'm switching T's soon, I want to know if I should tell my current T (who, for some reason, is controlling the search for a new T) to expand the search for females and males in the area of expertise I need. I don't know why I never thought of this first...Now, it almost seems like maybe (and I could be getting ahead of myself) I could do better with a male T...cause one of the biggest problems I've had with female T's thus far is that some of the things they do remind me of my mother, which triggers my BPD and makes me completely hate them and fight everything they try to do.

Sorry for rambling...please tell me your opinion, no matter what it is!!!! (Yes, you can even post to say "I think chocolate is amazing" )