Feel free to take out any and all aggression on my soon-to-be ex-husband. He needs someone to kick his @**, and I have to be nice until the divorce is final.
Otherwise, I agree with previous suggestions...get something to occupy the kids, tell husband to start finding a good website about fish care, and go out dancing. Then come back and rant some more if need be!
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From the movie The Hours: "If I were thinking clearly, Leonard, I would tell you that I wrestle alone in the dark, in the deep dark, and that only I can know. Only I can understand my condition. You live with the threat, you tell me you live with the threat of my extinction. Leonard, I live with it too."