Update: Last week I found out he hasn't been paying the bills for 3 months. everything is being turned off. I found out when I went to call a friend to talk. I paid the telephone and freaked out. I yelled at him (I was furious) Then I looked at the piles of mail on his desk and found out that nothing had been paid and found the cancellation notices. Needless to say I was angry he walked away when I began to yell. I followed and he said he are you going to keep yelling at me? I said have you met me? He gave no reason for not paying. There are no unusal withdrawls on the account. I don't know where the money went. This insn't the first time this has happened. We set up an account to pay bills and he got really angry when I tried to monitor it in the past. I thought ok I will give you this responsibility and trust you. I am at my wits end. I can't live like this anymore.