My boyfriend dropped the bombshell of telling me he has had feelings for another girl, but they dont come close to what we have. He said he has a crush on her. He told me that he doesnt know what kind of feelings tehy are and that he has never act on any of them., Now he use to work with her and now got transferred to another store. I dont know what to do. I have told him if he is just staying with me bc of our son i dont want that, there is nothing healthy in that kinda of a relationship, but he said he wants to be with me. We have been together going on 3 years and 5 months. Thats a long time. I dont know where he stands? he says he needs to think of things and get his head clear... He works almost 70 hours a week and doesnt get to see me or his son bc we dont live together.

I dont know what to do now? Or to expect in the future..

Can anyone give me some advice