I just saw your thread....not on here much lately.

Just a thought. Some guys who start off quickly with the 'I love you' stuff are there for the conquest. They like the challenge to get someone who isn't willing to open up easily & then when that person does, they have won what they are after in the relationship & aren't interested anymore.

I would hope this isn't the case with your BF, but it sure sounds like it. That has nothing to do with you. They are smooth & cunning & hard to recognize, except to stay leery of someone who quickly expresses their love.

I don't know you, but everyone is a valuable person & should not be treated with the disrespect that your BF has treated you. I don't think I would waste my time trying to wrap my brain around what he is doing to you & would just walk away with your pride in hand, knowing that you are a good person & weren't doing anything wrong by holding your heart close to you until you knew the BF better. Don't be pushed. I wonder if you hadn't been pushed by him if you would have really said you loved him when you did, or were there really things that you didn't feel comfortable with which was why you were holding back?

You deserve the right person...its obvious that this person isn't or he wouldn't treat you like this......move on & don't worry about it...it doesn't sound like it has anything to do with you, but the guy that wanted to conquer your heart & nothing else.