I have always had close male friends and like you, was uncomfortable with my female peers. I tried a few female t's and they were all horrible experiences. I've had 3 different male t's over the years and each one was supportive, easy to be honest with, and just excellent in their profession. I'd take your current t out of the equation for finding a new t. That just seems odd to me. You can do this independent of your current t. Good luck to you.