Hello, Deagansmommy2009. Sorry this is happening. If he does not see you and his son because he works so much, does his son even know who his father is?

My thought is to tell him the two of you need to talk. If he keeps saying he needs more time to get his head together, I would be concerned. He says his feelings do not come close to what he feels for you. So he should not need a lot of time to clear his head.

If his name on your son's birth certificate. Paternity needs to be established to receive child support if things do not work out. Are you working? I think you see that you need to do some planning if your friend decides to move on.

Good luck.