I've never really had more than superficial relationships with others until I started on my journey in therapy. Now, I have really connected relationships with 2 friends and have been able to heal a relationship with a person from my childhood. These relationships have been incredible and IDK I seem to be attracting people to me who are capable and interested in deeper interactions. The only downside (at least at this point) has been as I explore these more intimate exchanges and feeling things it make me crave a deeper connection with a true sole-mate or partner. Someone to share things that... :-) you can't share with friends no matter how close they are. My H...doesn't seem to be what I'm craving. I've been hoping this will change but....

IDK about the pre-set community thing through. I've never heard of that type of community, my relationships have just developed as I started changing.