Hello, halogirl4. Are you receiving treatment for the depression? If so you might want to discuss this relationship issue with your therapist.

My take is that you and your friend's ex are pawns in a game your friend is playing. Trust is the linchpin of relationships. Your friend needs a lot of work in that area.

You must decide what your are going to do about the relationship. If you are still so depressed you are thinking about checking into a hospital, please call your therapist as soon as possible.

Good luck.