Faylowell - seems like you have a really loving husband - congrats.

Back to the topic of tension head aches - I had such a bad migraine last night; it felt like I'd been shot through the head. I didn't know what to do with myself, as painkillers didn't help in the slightest. I finally managed to get to sleep, woke up and it was gone, and just before mid-day I can feel a slight headache coming on.

With a tension headache, try lying on a flat surface - like the floor - with a hot water bottle in the small of your neck. Find a quiet and dark room.