Thank you all. Yes, I will be grieving for awhile but maybe not too long. I listed the things I had anxieties about him. His mother came to live with him, she is one nasty piece of work. He is dealing with an aggressive exwife who has already tired to turn his 16 yo daughter against me. He is in debt over his eye balls, he lives in an apt that doesnt allow dogs so we would have to move apts - a huge hassle in itself because he has a massive saltwater fish tank. His constant badgering to get out an run and do core excercizes. The daily grind of dealing with 2 teenagers and an angry mom.

Yeah, he is no catch and I am much better without all that stress in my life.