I have been with my T for just a little over four years, and had erotic transference issues lately. I told him vaguely and found myself unable to move forward with this discussion. I talk about everything but not this topic. He doesn't force me to discuss anything that I am not comfortable discussing either, which I respect. So, now it turns out that I have reached a rut with him. So recently feeling highly overwhelmed I went to another T to discuss the transference issue. I am not going to have the new T permanently of course, but I just needed to speak to someone new to let it all out. Now I am feeling very guilty about "cheating" on my existing T. If you guys are ready to tell me that I need to talk about the transference openly, then please know how hard it is. I am sure everyone here can relate to this. This is not what I can do now.

But should I feel bad for cheating on T?