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Old May 24, 2010, 04:37 PM
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Originally Posted by Perna View Post
I think 10 Ts in the last 3 years is a greater problem than what gender they are. Too, that you describe this T as a "moron" and think even their finding you a male T would make a difference. A moron can't make a good choice for you; only you can. Do your own search. If you cannot do your own search, I would stay where you are and work as well as you can where you are.

The biggest thing I can think of is that I keep getting shifted around. They suddenly think, "oh, this person can help you more," either because I need to see someone more qualified or that I get along with better (according to them)... It actually gets really old. And with a few of them (but literally probably only...2, that I remember) I either did NOT get along well with their personality or (with one in particular) she did/said something that caused me to hate her (stupid BPD, but whatever. She was a ******!).

Yes, it does seem like a lot, and I constantly ask myself if that's my fault, but I don't really think it is...at least nothing that could be altered, changed, or helped.
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