As I said before...I apologize...It was not my intent to come off as being unsupportive. To help you understand my perspective...we have uprooted our house for my husband's children and mine many, many times and they just took advantage...so, I guess your post touched a nerve with me as well. We are not control freaks or bad parents. No hard feelings I hope...none meant on this end. I wish you nothing but good and hope your situation improves soon!