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Old May 24, 2010, 08:29 PM
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Originally Posted by jexa View Post
Someone tell me what to do..
first -
Since you asked.....
1) take care of yourself first - each day get up and figure out what it takes to get thru the day and safely back to bed at night. Do that and no more than that; protect yourself.
2) deal with the death in the family as appropriate ( or or other)
3) tell the guy that you've had a death in the family and you will call him in June - you just need some space and some family time.

Next month you can make time to get to know the guy on some low-key dates (walk in the park, matinee movie + dinner).
Thanks for this!
jexa