Humors1, Just when you believe you're OK it sneaks back as a warning that there's yet another place unresolved to give thought. My husband was adverse to the need for T initially. He is my biggest supporter with a "hug" radar or "danger will robinson" siren. It took years for him to understand and in that time I cried as you are. Hang in there. Check out the link that Byz provided and treat yourself well.