I still remember when a woman a few years older than I am (I was in my late 20's started a job and first day, the office was going out to a restaurant in the neighborhood for lunch and when we were getting ready to cross a road with traffic, she slammed her arm into my stomach to stop me from moving forward, stepping off the curb. I almost slugged her

I did some fast thinking and realized she had young children and it was just "habit" to her, not about me at all.