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Originally Posted by Perna
I would say it has to do with respect. Groping is never respectful in public (other persons have to witness and they may not wish to; the same goes for public nudity) and usually not in private unless there's clear communication that it would be welcomed.
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This speaks to my point. In many places in Africa as well as some in scores of other locations around the globe, public nudity is common and there is often much more than public groping as well. Are we prepared to say that their entire culture is disrespectful? I'm going to guess that we would not - it's not very PC at the very least. So is it only disrespectful because our society says it is?
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Originally Posted by Perna
Killing other people is not very respectful of them 
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I know this was said in jest, but I am a combat veteran who was paid to kill other people and was honored by my society for showing great skill at doing so. There are parades every year (Veterans Day) to show respect for people like myself who were better at it than whoever the government said were our enemies de jour. I agree that killing people isn't very respectful of them, but trying to show here that even something as obvious as murder can be held up and honored by a society.
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Originally Posted by Perna
...and, a great many of us are here because we had sexual experiences "too young" so that's a more scientific and practical matter, when is a human mature enough to deal with the emotional and other consequences of sex.
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Your last question is an interesting one. I've been all over the world and I've got to tell you, I've seen sixteen year olds in some countries that I thought were ready for parenthood and some countries in which I couldn't find a 26 year old who I thought was mature enough. Now granted, that is just one opinion, but different societies have different norms. I often think trauma is the result of a conflict with societal mores and norms moreso than the act itself.
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It's nice that teens can take their babies to school now but, generally it's not so respectful of those paying taxes to literally have to pay for the teen's deliberate choice to disrespect.
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I agree, but it is difficult for me to expect a teen to respect the taxpayer and the added burden we are being forced to shoulder when that burden is insignificant next to the money we give corporate america for a bailout. The government is a lousy role model for respecting the taxpayers.