Bloom xxxx

I have to focus on the title of your post.... you are "self sacrificing" to ensure harmony around you.
I am a people pleaser too.... but my T has driven into me that I have to make myself happy first.
Please do what you feel is best for you before anyone else. It's so difficult. I just want everyone around me to smile and be content that I end up being frustrated and burnt out.
Take care of you first and fore most.

Hugs!!!