Rainbow,

I like the sound of your t. She seems kind, yet honest and straightforward. I also think it's interesting that she was willing to tell you how your (online) behavior affected her. It might be good for you to have a t who will share her reactions with you, rather than being a blank slate and have you always wondering what she's thinking toward you. I've often wished my t would share more of her feelings/reactions toward me because it would help me understand how my behaviors affect people around me and/or how i come across to others.