Thanks everyone for your thoughful responses.
I had sometime to think about what T said and why im still so sad. I accept her apology as T is for the most part careful with her words and we get along great. My thoughts are that the comment made struck a deep hurt in me that i have never been given the opportunity to talk about. I grew up in a family where picking on each other and rude comments were the norm. Though i wasn't obese, i was a lot larger than my siblings and i remeber being called so many names that it hurts to just think about it. I was also told in 6th grade by a teacher that i would be much more prettier if i lost a few pounds. I was a cheerleader in highschool and someone yelled from the stands one game "sit your fat ***** down". I was humilated, hurt and so ashamed. Now, i'm a fitness instructor and maybe weigh 125 pounds, yet im still pained so deeply by those experiences.
Now that i think about it, I also recall T adding that women seem to want to achieve this no breast, lean, muscular low body fat percentage look ( teenage boy) and that curviness is way more attractive. Now i feel even more ashamed
I hope this week gets better.....