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Originally Posted by farmergirl
The problem here is that she didn't ask for a message to be left, so it's quite possible it won't be left. If you are really asking for you needs to be met, you have to be up-front and clear about it rather than having wishful thinking that maybe the t will do what you want even though you didn't directly ask for it.
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Oh, I totally agree with this. I was just responding to Perna's comment about babies crying/using self-soothing instead of a message from T. And then I guess it dovetailed into the fact that I've found it empowering to learn how to ask T (and others) to help me meet my needs.
It really is a learning process.
