(((((Kansas girl17)))---a true friend is someone you can be your best self with.

If, at the end of your life, you can count just one friend who has always been there for you, and you for them-----------You will be wealthy.

These are sayings I paraphrased for you.

In my life, thus far; I can count two (2) true friends in my life. They are friends of over 40 years.

It is true, however, that I do not burden them with my problems these days; as my problems would hurt them (they love me and I love them).

To be a good friend, you must first be your own best friend.
You are putting yourself down--casting negative vibes out to all-----surely you are of worth?
Surely you have things about yourself that make YOU proud?

Go easy on yourself-------you need YOU!!!!!------I send you hugs---theo