Sounds like he is a piece of work, controlling to the max, it is good that you and he are parting, it sounds living with that would be like eternal hell. I'm glad for your sake,sanity, and safety. It may all be hard at first but leaving him, and as time passes you'll probably feel like a brand nw woman.

Warm wishes for you of peace and healing.
((((((((((((( wi ))))))))))))))
DE