DE, we've been divorced for 4-1/2 years. My daughter wants to live with me full-time, but he won't have it, not legally. If he agrees to it through the court system, he'll have to pay child support.

He's been letting her stay with me for the last six weeks. She's only been at his place a total of five days since mid August. The last time she was there he told her that maybe it's best that she not live at his house if she's going to make everyone upset.

He seems to think that by telling someone you aren't welcome in his house that you'll shape up so you retain the "privilege" of being in his presence. When you point out that he said you aren't welcome, he says it was taken out of context and he was just trying to prove a point. Huh? When someone says "You're not welcome. Leave." it's supposed to mean "Leave" not "I love you. Stay, but only under my terms and conditions."

He's a controlling, manipulative beeeeeeeeeeeep, and I'm gonna lose it if he takes this to trial.