The other threads were not closed due to people here being "offenders"...if that were the case, those people would no longer be members. Also, you may recall that the OP indicated in one of those closed threads that she did not realize that her children seeing her being abused was abusive to them. The OP also discussed SI as abusive to others. Neither of those issues makes her an "offender".

YOU may think that your posts are not abusive, however, I do. And that is the heart of the issue here. There are many different ideas of what is included in abusive behavior and what is not. I believe that continuing to "harp" on the same person, for the same thing, over and over again...without waiting for input from admins, is abusive.

I also find it interesting that you chastise one person for not disclosing an issue right away, yet your own profile is blank, and you have made no introductory post.