for the past 2 years, there was someone in my life (in a pos of authority) who I had major transference for, as well as my T. When I started trying to talk about these feelings to T, I was SO uncomfortable and just shut down. I didn't want her to know that I was capable of such feelings. So T being clever, started asking me about this other person and what I felt about her. And that's when all of the feelings came pouring out. Didn't realize til afterwards lol... sneaky T

oh, I'll just add that while this made talking about the feelings much easier, it also got the ball rolling and suddenly talking to T directly seemed less daunting. It's still not easy and I still "shut down" sometimes, but I don't think that talking to T about the relationship is ever easy