((((((((((blanche))))))))))

I have a teeny urn/vase thing from the funeral home with some of my father's ashes. I'm not sure how I would feel if they were ALL gone...I don't feel like I am attached to them, but like you said, maybe that's because some of them are still here.

I read once that someone put some of his father's ashes in the wheel well of his car because he and his dad liked to drive around together

I'm sorry for your loss.