Peanut ****hugs********
He did say that he feels like he is cheating me by NOT doing what he considers his job: helping to improve my life. I told him I was comfortable in my world, and very quickly he said, "is that why you cut?" My response was, "I never said I was happy, just comfortable."
At some point in time our relationship had to end, I guess. To be honest, I had never really considered that........I thought I would be able to talk to him for however long I wished.
My DM is a jerk. To be nice about it.
Take care.