Thank you all, yes, it is better to be alone than to be with the wrong person. "Tis better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all" does not say "Tis better to love and let the one you love tell you that you are no good". Dont worry about not ever having someone, Ithinkimpsycho, because when you have someone and all they want to do is change you, well then... go to Mars and find an alien to be with!