I don't know. The therapists say you probably should start with the hospital so some meds could be tried to help and then work out from there. I think it can be hard to work with us if they are not comfortable with what they're working with; if you have the tools, I don't know how they can "help you" use them, you are the only one who can use them. But if they're not enough at the moment to help you, then I would try doing things their way again, see if that can't help you get to a point where it's easier to use the tools/learn new ones, etc.?