I hope that I do not offend anyone here with this post..First, I think that Ozzie was precious and encouraging here..I moderated another forum for over 2 years(something I never want to do again)..anyway, when I left, quite honestly I left in anger..not at the forum I belonged to, but because my H's gf had gotten access and it caused a tremendous mess for me..when I left ,I blocked all email access to me, and got rid of my signee and stopped all responses from the site from reaching me..personally, for me, I had no right to remove any previous post or thread that I had participated in, or begun..I cannot tell you how many times members of that forum would pm me and tell me that they had gone into the archives, and how they were touched by my posts,or others who had previously posted..that is where they should remain..I participated willingly and supportively in them, and all of my threads & posts belonged, and still do, to that community...I chose to leave and that was my closure...I still visit sometimes, and am grateful that it was a part of my life..My hope for Ozzie is that she always knows how special she is here to this forum, and that those of us who are here understand, though we may not agree with what has happened..Ozzie please take gentle care of yourself..