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It may be that I haven't had time to check out all postings(which I really doubt I'll do). But I haven't read or seen any Gays or Lesbians talk about their hardships with breakups.
My wife of 4 years and I recently separated. We were together for 15 years and had a lot of hopes and dreams.
That hardest part I am having to deal with, as well as the deeper it puts me into depression is how someone can change the feelings they had for you so quickly.
The person you loved who made you smile, turned you on, was your best friend for so long - is a cold stranger all of a sudden.
My wife and I are were legally married with hopes of having kids. That didn't work out since the options were limited for getting pregnant and then I got sick and we were so overwhelmed that something a long the way just snapped.
I tend to forgive a lot faster, but not forget.
I just don't understand how deep feelings for your 'life partner' can change to the opposite spectrum almost over night.
<sigh>
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