So you guys know that my bf and I moved down to AR. Well he has been looking for a job and cant find one. Its been about 2 weeks now that he has been unemployed. So I thought, Ill start looking for a second job to help out more even though Im already working 40 hrs a week. So I go into a pizza place and get hired on the spot. Then he gets mad at me for getting 2 jobs before he has gotten one? Getting mad at me for trying to help out?

I told him that they were hiring more people and he could get hired right then but he doesnt want to work there. There is another pizza place he used to work at for over 3 years that is hiring every position in the store basically but he wont go there either. So Im the jerk for getting hired on the spot because I can lower my standards simply to pay the bills?!

And he specifically said when I mentioned my concerns about him not getting a job "I would go and work at pizza hut before I would go jobless". So pizza hut is hiring.....but he wont apply. What am I supposed to do? Im intentionally not even paying my bills (i.e. credit cards) and kind of ruining my credit to be able to help him and he gets mad at me? He cant even appreciate that Im pretty much screwing myself over so that he can pay rent. How the hell does that make sense? Im about to just go off on him. Not to mention he has spent money since we moved on stuff like going out to eat and video games but then cant find a job......

And he is completely reliant on me getting a bunch of money for graduation no matter how much I remind him that my family is poor and cant afford to help me out. Im so angry right now. How do I voice this without being naggy and mean?