Jan,

You are loveable!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I if you need to......like in gradeschool.......write it over & over & over 1000 times....telling yourself " I am loveable'.

You are a wonderful kind person.....& you must realize that when he ruined the love between you, he didn't deserve a wonderful person like you.

I am sure I will find out just how lonely it is to be divorced once it is complete, but there are many good points to being alone...& only depending on yourself. Yes it is stressful having no one to lean on, but remember, you are better off where you are than where you were.

Love yourself as we love you......you are a valuable person in this whold world....& Don't Ever Forget That. We all can not be wrong, so listen to us.

~hugz & kind wishes for you to get through this anniversary,
Debbie