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May 29, 2010, 05:28 PM
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Member Since: Apr 2010
Location: East Coast of Florida
Posts: 98
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Hester, The one thing that keeps popping up on your posts is that you want to have fun. Find someway to either start date-nights w/ yr. hubby or get counciling on how do put more fun in your marriage. If you used to like going to movies (etc) then go to the movies!! Maybe that any other activity may restart the spark. Ask him what he would like to do in the fun dept. besides sex! 
Also, as to the fun: in I Corinithians in The Bible there is a definition of love. And you don't have to be religious at all to appreciate it.
I don't know the whole thing but:
Love is Patient
Love is Kind
Love is not Self-Serving
Does not find fault
But you get the idea. I don't see the word fun anywhere in there, but instead there are words that can be words and qualities which can be shared among a married couple to lessen the money problems and work in unison to fix the problem. Once the major stressor is gone, then there is time for fun. Shortcuts in life don't work. This FWB is a shortcut that can only lead to the hurt of 3 people. Take care of yourself and see if you can think your way out of this problem. Sometimes solutions are right under our noses. Post w/ idea to follow bipolarbearV Look For The Laughter!
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