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Old May 29, 2010, 06:19 PM
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Sounds like a typical power struggle thing. Why did you move to AR, mostly for you or for him? I wouldn't bug him about the pizza workplace specifically; I can see not working there anymore and being sick of it but I would tell him you would "appreciate" it if he got "some" job at least, even if he gets his second job first :-)

When I feel things are unequal with my husband I remind myself, would I like to do all the work and live alone or would I like to do all the work and have someone I liked by my side :-) You'd still have to support yourself and "take the garbage out" if you're alone.

I would ignore his complaints about your getting two jobs before he gets one, etc., and just reply in a cool manner that he can feel free to go look for and get a job anytime he wants.
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