Hi everybody,

As promised I keep you posted about Mr Scared of life-don't know what I want (see previous posts).
Well what do you know. After I started taking care of myself, this mister is starting to be worried. It is still far from enough but the cold shoulder with a smile seems to be working so far. Still taking appointments at his office outside his working hours. Last time, the office called to change my appoinment to a later time. Not making myself crazy anymore. Seems the best strategy to make him crazy. Thanks for the advice and let's hope it keeps working. It is hard to find the good balance.
I think the main problem was (is still ?) that he believes I am having an affair with his best friend. He doesn't believe anything you say. Either he has been lied to a lot or he has lied a lot. Well, how would you make him understand there is just friendship without acting like I am defending myself and without acting needy ?
I can't just yell at his friend just to make my point !!!
Thanks for your advice as always !