Ok, here is the update, the test results are in.
Good and bad -
Grandson does not test for Asperger's or any other autistic/pdd issue. That's the good news!
Grandson is suffering tremendously from PTSD/Anxiety. That's the bad news.
I knew there was some PTSD and anxiety within him, just didn't realize it was affecting him this strongly. While he does have some autistic tendancies, they are not in and of themselves valid for a dx.
At least now we know and we can detail our determination to get him the help he needs in the right direction. For that I am grateful.
Thank you everyone for your wonderful support. I love you all very much!

sabby