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Old May 30, 2010, 03:20 AM
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Originally Posted by bluegirl...? View Post
Looking at a cup of water, there's the whole you're-an-optimist-if-you-think-it's-half-full and there'sthe whole you're-a-pessimest-if-you-see-it's-half-empty. -what am i when all i see is just water thats halfway in a cup, and dont think any more to it and move on to something else?
Umm... more interested in the something else than in the cup of water?

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So, maybe I'm not numb, since thats without feeling, but I dont know what to describe me. bitter? upset? hopeless? pissed? confused? unsure? all of the above?
I think it would be more useful to just keep noticing what's there for you. When you're ready for a description, you'll almost certainly come up with one (or more) before we will. The trouble with descriptions is that you get distracted into arguing if the description is right or wrong and if it would be good or bad to be that way, and stop paying attention to you -- the one the description is supposed to fit or not.

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So what do i do, because i really have no and im just so confused and i dont *want* to give up?
That could be part of your problem -- trying too hard. I get some of my best ideas after I give up.
Thanks for this!
bluegirl...?, ruffy