All we do is fight about money. We are getting sick of it but we don't know how to resolve it. Our money issues will not go away but the stress of it is overwhelming and we don't have the best communication skills which then trickles down to other problems. I have a short fuse and he gets very defensive. Our argument could get very mean at times. He's always worried that we're about to break up but I'm no where near that. I just want us to reduce our stress and learn how to talk to one another. How do I stay calm when my raw emotions gets the best of me.