In all fairness, Zorah should be able to voice her frustrations as well. Granted, she assumed something unethical happened, but that is probably more of a PTSD reaction that anything else. She is allowed her opinion, just everyone else is allowed theirs. Personally, I am glad she stated her discomfort here. It's harder to fix problems if no one knows they are around. I don't think she should be made to feel bad because she feels uncomfortable. Not everyone can get along with everyone. It's part of life.

Furthermore, none of us know what happened. Sure, we can guess, but only the two people involved know the "real" story. We probably never will. So, I think we should remember this is a support site and either support Ozzie's decision or simply agree to disagree. Speculating just starts rumors.

Arguments are only going to lead to more problems. Whats done is done. Whether we agree with the choices made or not.

Good luck, Ozzie. Wherever you are.