i dont have any advice but i know exactly how you feel..it is almost like he thinks you owe him and hate that your the one that is close to him,and god forbid you should do anything better than he thinks he can do it,and never any responsibility...i could go on, i too am in this situation,when it gets too bad and we come to an agreement it doesnt last long..2 weeks at the most,i just cant figure out why i stay....it is abuse,,,,is there any other abuse?