(((((TayQuincy)))))

I want to give you lots of hugs, first. You've helped me a lot even when I didn't want to hear what you told me. You seem like such a strong person. Can you hold onto that thought? You CAN handle what life is giving you. It's not going to be bad forever.

About the job. Is it the only one in your profession that is available? Since you went on 2 interviews with them, they must have liked you. Maybe you can ask them to recommend you to another employer? I know it's hard to find a job now, but you've got to keep trying.

Why is T terminating with you at the end of the year? She's still your T now, though. Is there a reason she's not supportive? I'm sorry she didn't return your last 2 calls. Can you email her? Do you have a session next week? Maybe it's because of the holiday week-end she's not available right now.

Maybe you are thinking in black or white. I understand the need to feel secure. It takes 2. Why would your H stay in a marriage if he didn't love you? Maybe you could go to couples counseling?

You DO have control over your life. You can choose what to do now, but not while you're so upset. I agree about doing something distracting now, until you can see or talk to your T. She cares. We care about you here.