"it's like this... suppose you were afraid of getting older... you are going to get older whether you are afraid or not. Being increasingly terrified as each day, week and year passes won't stop the aging and will cripple you emotionally. It would affect your decisions and make life increasingly harder. Being positive won't stop the aging either, but it makes life tolerable and happier." quote from little rhino --- that is my thought exactly about age...i never thought about life that way...THANK YOU so much